People are Describable

One thing I have been struggling with the past few weeks is how people can one minute say they love someone or that a specific person means a lot to them and then in literally the same breathe they can say the opposite and treat "said person" horribly for really no reason and more specifically for reasons they regret later. Why do people do this? Why is it that people tend to take others feelings in their hands and then jack hammer them into a thousands hurtful pieces? Is it really necessary?worth it? I am currently in a battle between the way I used to feel and the way I wan to feel about someone and its completely conflicting with my future plans. I want to be able to move on and worth past the problems but how do you do that when this person you love, and hurt at the same time is also someone that you want to spend time with, someone you shard dozens of memories with. Ten years from now I wont remember this person at all, and as I attempt to tell stories of our adventures they will seem meaningless to everyone except me. This makes me feel sad and lonely all at the same time, but there is nothing more that one can do but forget right? If things were meant to be then they would be or so the saying goes. I believe in faith, and fate all in the same line as ones destiny so do i try and let my destiny, my fate take me somewhere? Its seems like an easy answer but its not when such individuals are a part of your daily life..... I am sure that everyone reading this has someone that falls into that category, someone that they enjoy talking to but also finds it hurtful at the same time, kind of like being on a diet... horrible analogy but go with me on this. Its something that you know is good for you but at the same time it sucks right? Like the diet is all telling you that you should not enjoy chocolate but chocolate is the same as when you hear that persons voice before bed.... comforting. I am digressing and missing the point here. Basically what I want to point out is that if you have someone in your life worth holding on to, do so. Cause that person could be gone in a moment, and always try to think about the words you say cause sometimes the things you say might be taken wrongly or more strongly by the other party and in such cases you are left feeling worse then how you started.